Hal-
Kill the sugar first. In truth, there is no one answer and ideal macronutrient breakdowns are very different depending on your own genetic makeup. That said kill the sugar first
And by sugar, I also mean white bread, white rice, breads, and just about most simple carbohydrate sources which your body will basically treat as sugars when it comes to glycemic load and your corresponding insulin response. Consistently elevated insulin levels and the inevitable insulin resistance that gradually builds make it practically impossible to burn fat over any sustained period of time. Get as many of your carbohydrates from vegetables (non-starchy) as possible. Brown rice, quinoa, lentils, are a few non-veggie carb sources worth consideration. Use things like hot sauce, pepper, fresh garlic and other herbs/spices to keep your food interesting while attempting to reduce your salt.
Relative to fat consumption, chances are your overall intake is fine... the biggest issue is typically with the types and ratios of fats you consume. Good fats are increasingly being seen as helpful in turning on your body's ability to burn fat stores (Omega-3"s and CLA are two examples). Ironically most people who think that they eat great... actually don't eat enough fat. Their skin, joints, and hormonal profiles suffer as a result. So keep your fat intake up, but get representation from all the good types and eliminate that caustic ones (trans fatty anything, partially hydrogenated anything). Also try to balance the ratios of fats you eat. For example, Omega 6 fats are necessary, but a diet too high in 6's (most Americans) can create chronic inflammation throughout your body. I see you like red meat from your posts in the other thread. Start buying your meat from the internet or another local organic & GRASS FED cattle source. Grass fed is the absolute key. The USDA organic seal, while better than eating antibiotic/hormone filled beef, is still dripping with an unatural fat balance (tons of O-6's, virtually no O-3's or CLA) brought on by a diet of grains. Grass fed beef from a trusted source is a superior choice in every way (except for its wallet impact:wink
when it comes to your health when compared to non-grass fed beef. It actually has a good balance of Omega-3's, 6's and CLA. Here a few fat source recommendations that can easily be incorporated into your diet:
Grass fed beef
Wild caught salmon (there are expensive sources that certify low mercury content. I can send you links if you want)
Extra Virgin Olive Oil
Walnuts
Organic Nut butters: Almond and Walnut are my choices (if price is no issue, go for the 'Sprouted/Organic options.... avail at Whole Foods)
Fish Oil Capsules
Ground Flax Seed
Unrefined Virgin Coconut Oil - a good MCT
By the way, I politely disagree with the fruit recommendation. Other than blueberries, I would consider limiting your fruit intake. A few other random tidbits:
When eating a meal with high fat content (even good fats), try to go conservative on the carb intake. A common time for meal like this would be your final meal of the day. Conversely, when eating a meal high in carbohydrates (even good carbs and especially bad ones), limit the fats. A commone time for this sort of meal would be breakfast or post-workout. Btw, my assumption is that you are pairing some sort of protein source with all your meals. Your overall protein intake is a very peronal choice. If you plan on materially increasing your excercise load, you may want to consider increasing your protein intake a little bit. If you were 20 years old, you could crank it way up
But, unless you are on some sort of HRT program, you probably don't have enough testosterone to make use of massive protein quantities without taxing your kidneys and pancreas.
At the end of the day, diet is as personal as it gets. Go into it with educated starting points, but trial and error will net you the best results over time. It is the only way for you to figure out the right balance of overall calorie intake and what macronutrient breakdown for that given calorie intake will allow you to lose weight and still feel good while doing it. In the long run, this will also permit you to find a very healthy new normal.
Good luck.
-Jason