Fair enough... I don't doubt the fact that you're a nice guy. Honestly, I don't like the fighting either... I just had to take issue. Your current analogy makes you much more personable to me... unfortunately your original post (and some of your following posts) did not make it sound like that was what you were trying to say... at all. I did apologize for the emotional and sharp attack, I believe that was largely due to the fact that I had just spoken to my sister the day before; a person who has suffered greatly at comments like your first one. I am certainly still bothered by it, but everybody does have the right to be who they are... I am no exception... I go to clubs in my Ferrari jacket.Mike-san said:Look at things this way. I think that everyone's confidence varies depending on the situation. We don't go out clubbing w/ morning breath and homeless clothes. We want to look our best in order to increase our confidence in presenting ourselves to the opposite sex. If your buddies kidnapped you in the morning and put you in a social situation, you would probably shrink due to the fact that you felt self concious about your smell and appearence. So, everyone's confidence varies depending on the situation. I had confidence before, but the car increased it. No lie. It adds to the image I present. It's not everything of course, but it IS something. The responses made me sound like a kid who has just put on a cowboy suit. That's unfair. I do have new standards, but they basically just apply to the potential women who may or may not date me. I'm a nice person...really. Redshift, I'm tired of fighting. On paper, I'm wrong and your'e right regarding a car determining a person's worth. I'm just defending myself against accousations that I'm totally immature and shallow and insecure in ALL areas of my life.
Just kidding on that last one :biggrin: