I still think some of you are more into attacking than trying to "read between the lines" of my post. Look, my feelings about all this were not preplaned. I always liked NSX's and I was always on the lookout for one to buy, but my thinking was not "I gotta get one ASAP in order to increase my confidence". I found mine and it was such a great deal, I couldn't pass it up. Almost immediatley, I noticed the car's effect on women. They all loved it. I've worked hard all my life, but I went through a divorce that made me nickel and dime it for a few years. After I got the car, I said F#@k it !!! I'm going to start treating myself better in other areas as well, hence the higher standards in the women I'll date. I could be Brad Pitt, but if I ask out a woman out to have a meal w/ me or something like that, and then show up in a piece of junk rust bucket, I'll feel like S%$t and she will probably be angry that she spent so much time getting ready ( hair, makeup, clothes ) just to be seen getting out of a jalopy in front of the restaurant. Like it or not, a car is part of the total visual package we present to the world. Why do you think people rent Limos for weddings and proms ? Go ahead and call me insecure and shallow, but at least I had the confidence to share my true feelings on this board , instead of the self rightous B.S. aimed in my direction. It's real easy to say the right things just because they're what society says is right, but I just get a feeling that a lot of you think the same way I do, you'll just never admit it. P.S. Mermaid-you seem like a nice person, but your cheerleader on the sidelines act is starting to get old....