I'm surprised there aren't any decent tuners in the Miami area.
Anyways, I went through your cal file.
The first thing is to sync your TPS min and max with AEM. With the engine off, connect to your ECU and go to the "Wizards" tab and select "Throttle Range Wizard." Follow the instructions. That should fix your TPS and enable idle feedback.
Next, go to your Idle parameter tab. See the RPM Offset vs TPS graph? For throttle percentages 4% and higher, make those 250 RPM. Right click on the dots and select "Select Value" to change them. That should help with stalling when the TB shuts abruptly.
There's a few other things to do too using the method above of selecting the data points and inputting new values:
* In the Idle Target Base graph, a 1000 RPM idle is fine for ECTs above 176F, but I would make the others have a nice slope to a maximum of 1500 RPM near -4F. My OEM ECU NSX settled into a 1300 RPM idle a few seconds after starting it this morning with an ECT of 25F.
* For RPM Offset vs Start graph, I would change the maximum from 1000 RPM to 500 RPM, and slope that down to zero about 10 seconds after start.
* For the Ign vs Idle RPM graph, I recommend you make it like mine pictured earlier. Maximum feedback should be no more than +/- 10 degrees.
* Finally, the Options - Idle parameters on the left, I would change the last two idle dead bands to +50 and -50 RPM.
That should get you in the ballpark for idling. Make those changes and try it out.
I didn't examine everything in detail, but your rev limiter is 8150 RPM and your VTEC is set to switch over at 4300 RPM (instead of the factory ~5700 RPM). Just some tidbits of info.