Geeze.. I didn’t expect to see a rash of HARSH comments. I have to say I was honestly saddened by some of my “fellow NSX” comrades. I put the auction up and I will openly admit it.
I never claimed that I was wealthy, quite the contrary, I am not. I, like many people in America, was infatuated with THINGS, I thought that it was so important to appear to be well to do or successful, often at the cost of living FAR beyond my means. In doing so, I built up so much debt that by the time I was 26 years old, I WAS severely in debt, as I said, to the tune of $50,000 @ 22% interest. I killed my credit score and was down to 520. Over time, I was able to make some money and pay off this debt. After most of the debt was paid off, I financed my NSX and again took on more debt. I like 99% of Americans was completely financially illiterate. We are not taught how to create wealth, but to simply be consumers.
Then one day I read a book, Rich Dad, Poor Dad, and it talked about how the rich get rich and why the poor get poorer. I quickly realized that I was a super consumer and I totally had the “poor “mentality. I bought so many liabilities and lived far above my means. I realized that had I spent my money wisely during my early days, I could have been so much more financially secure today. That $20,000 that went into my car could have gone into a $200,000 condo here in S. California, and now today be worth well over $300,000. I didn’t know this. This prompted me to read more books as well.
As I read more books about wealth building and books about people who have made it in life, one thing that was very common to the wealthy and successful, was that a large majority often “gave back to the community”. As I said before, I am not wealthy and cannot afford at this time to give as much as I would like. I have said I have learned a lot over the past few years, this information could be extremely valuable to people who wish to learn from the mistakes of others. All I wanted to do was to help people who might not have had the opportunity to have a coach. BostoNSX, as I said to you in your E mail, I am not trying to make money off of you, I said I was spending $50 dollars on lunch, and with gas prices where they are, another $50 dollars in gas (.375/ mile x 120 miles).
Why did I use the NSX in the EBay ad? Well obviously to some, it is a status symbol and something they might strive for. I wanted to appeal to these people and let them know that there are other things that they can do BEFORE they get the car. I am trying to practice what I preach and that is why I am selling my car. I am not in any hurry to sell it, and I have recently replaced the clutch, water pump, tires, timing belt, and conducted a service. The price is negotiable, as is everything in life.
My reason for creating this E bay auction was completely altruistic. Obviously $100 dollars for my time (4 hours) isn’t worth it to me, but as I said before, I want to help educate people, especially the younger people I meet who are following the same path I did. I had thought about doing it for free, but as with anything, anything for free is never perceived as valuable. My sales seminars that I used to conduct also were free to certain clients, but it wasn’t until I charged them, did they actually pay attention and listen.
I appreciate someone’s E mail to me expressing their concern for my safety. That was the type of attitude I expected from this community, but to be called a “loser” was something I wasn’t expecting. As I said to you BostoNSX in your E mail, I can't make any guarantees as I’m not really promising anything…I’m not saying you will become a millionaire in the next 5 years, but I will say you will be put on the right track.
I guess the saying is true …“no good dead goes unpunished”.
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