Randall,
Congratulations and welcome back! I've seen your posts over on the .org board. I kept my NSX and added a Venom 600 RT/10, but I digress........
There seem to be several options for exhaust systems and it is a very personal choice. I, for example, run an open exhaust (not cats, no muffler, just tips after the turbos) and I think it sounds great. Others may disagree. If you think your exhaust is too quiet, the cheapest option is to just replace the muffler with an aftermarket (ie flowmaster) by a competent exhaust shop and have the OE tips grafted on. If this doesn't work out, you'll only be out $150 or so, and then you can go for something else (taitec, comptech, tubi, or ?) Only down side is that you'll have hacked up the OE exhaust which unless you have the shop perform some more welding, won't be going back on. I do agree with you, though, that the stock system is just toooo quiet.
Happy motoring,
Ben