What do I think?What do you guys think?
I think it's smart to choose your wheel width after choosing your tire size, as you recommend.
I think you need to look up the wheel width specs for any size/make/model tire; you can't just base it on the width. For example, a 205/40-17 tire is typically approved for entirely different wheel widths from a 205/50-16.
I think it's often best to pick a wheel width in the middle of the approved range rather than either endpoint, but this is as much for looks as anything else. As long as the wheel width is in the approved range, I think you're fine, I think differences in wheel width are not going to have a lot of effect on performance or handling, and I think agonizing over endless analysis of wheel widths is pretty much a waste of time.
I think the NSX handling tends towards mild understeer but can be turned into oversteer (including snap oversteer) based on inputs with the throttle, wheel, etc.
I think the extreme performance tires in the most common NSX sizes offer superb handling:
205/50-15 and 225/50-16
205/45-16 and 245/40-17
215/45-16 and 245/40-17
215/45-16 and 255/40-17
215/40-17 and 255/35-18 ('95-05 NSX)
215/40-17 and 265/35-18 ('91-93 NSX)
I think what really matters to performance, grip, and handling is the make/model of the tire, as reflected in its design, including compound, tread pattern, etc. I think this is exactly 37.4 times more important than the width of the tire.
I don't think there's any need to "balance" the grip of the front vs. the rear. I think this is a silly idea. I think the staggered setup of the NSX is already well balanced, and the TCS as well as the size of the wheel wells require that the staggered setup be maintained.
I think it's impossible to scrape the front lip against the ground on a stock NSX with stock suspension in good condition and normal-sized tires. I think C&D never did this, and I think that nobody here can come up with an actual quote, with issue date and page, of any article in C&D saying that they did.
I think you're wrong in stating that it's impossible to induce oversteer with 8" front wheels and 9.5-10.5" rear wheels. I think you contradict this statement yourself by going on to state that you can induce snap oversteer with that setup.
That's what I think.