The amount of apologisms, even attacks on OP in here is ridiculous. Really, a dealer shouldn't order the customer's desired color? Can't even allow buyer to sit in the car? Incredible.
All of these problems OP and others mention are typical of buying something unusually high dollar at a very, very, very average dealer. IMO these shortfalls are to be expected but they are still completely valid criticisms. With Nissan you know you're in for the low-end dealer experience, but with Acura it's a shock for those unfamiliar. If you go to Lexus, Audi, BMW, MB, you are far less likely to deal with these sort of gripes. You can still find fault with them, but the Acura dealer experience has a long, long way to go by comparison.
Congrats Esprit on your new R8!