I 100% wanted the gen2 NSX, in nord grey, saddle interior and Tech/Sirius for $163,300. I went to LA Auto Show to see it in Valencia Red, sat in several of them (or just observed from a foot away) and see them in different colors. From that point things went south in several areas:
1) Some dealership treatment and awkward behavior,etc.. wasn't all that great (Other Acura dealerships were great)
2) Horrible residual and money factor
3) No ability to test drive the car AT ALL
I don't blame the decision to not buy the NSX on the dealerships... I guess I blame the Audi dealership that went above and beyond to make me feel special and to allow me to test drive a new R8, have an amazing residual and money factor and allow me to save over forty thousand dollars for the same priced car, etc..
My first and only choice was the NSX and I've always liked and respected the R8 from afar.. I can't explain it but driving the R8, along with my wife sitting in it....having the salesman ask my wife to start the R8, and have her hear the exhaust note was a major experience for her. Those little things count. I went home and all we could talk about was the R8. We fell in love with it and the NSX just wasn't so special anymore. Trust me... I've been waiting on the new NSX for a long time and never thought of another car.
You didn't buy the R8 from the dealership who treated you so well.
No reward for that dealer's effort.
You bought from another dealership across the country.
You can't get NSX test drives at the moment and all buyers know that going in.
If that was a deal breaker, why bother running around to five Acura dealerships?
As I recall you were having some trouble getting a dealership to accept your Nord Grey order some time ago.
The Acura dealer wasn't too receptive at the time and didn't offer a competitive package then.
Something to do with the dealer worrying about financing and being stuck with a Nord Grey NSX if you cancelled.
It sounds like you needed financing to make your purchase and you had stated your concerns about NSX residual values etc.
Much less financial risk for you to buy an R8.
It's a mature marque, residual values are known and it sounds like you made the right decision for you.
I'm not trying to criticize your decision.
I'm only taking exception to the comments in your original post about bad dealerships, letter's to Honda etc. being the reason not to buy an NSX.