What was the motivation for moving? Was it your idea or your wife's idea?
I almost did the same thing as you to Germany this year. But then covid hit and I backed off. Good thing too because we got a bigger house so we are more anchored here in the US.
I liked Japan when we went but it was too hard to find fresh fruit. Besides not speaking Japanese I really enjoyed it.
My motivation was really quite simple; it was far easier for me to get a Japanese Visa than it was for my wife to get an American Visa. US visa takes at least one year (usually more) vs Japan it took me three months.
Her work visa expired and she had to return to Japan about two years into dating, while I was pretty sure I wanted to marry her, it felt super forced and the right decision for the wrong reason is still a bad decision. It gave me time to focus on graduating school (was in my senior year of CSUF) and space to make this decision with a clear head.
Aside from the extended timeline (1 year minimum) to get her visa, the invasive interview process was a huge turn off for me (where they ask REALLY personal questions) and there was no way my wife answered them (Japanese being all shy and indirect)
A big factor in my decision to go was my getting to know and understand my wife better. Japanese is a SUPER strong culture and aside from some VERY limited superficial knowledge I had 0 idea how to really communicate with her (in English or Japanese) and there’s no better way to learn a culture and language than to dive into the place head first.
I “MAY” have gotten a little over my head with this decision. So far though it’s been a fun adventure.
P.S. you CAN get fresh fruit in Tokyo, just be prepared to pay out the nose for it. (That’s a 3 pack of grapes for ~$45USD)
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