..and there we have it in a nutshell. The very reason why the police act as they do. They are schooled on how to break the laws to catch the law breakers. They are themselves criminals who have the ability to interpret the laws how ever they need to in order to substantiate their own conduct. Sad very sad.
Fact is if the cops didn't have the free roam to lie all the damn time society would give them a lot more respect but on the other hand no real criminals would ever be caught. Just about every investigative show on TV shows how the perp got caught without much police work.
I have yet to meet a cop who will allow himself or his conduct to be challanged. They are never wrong!
Challenge me. I welcome it. Just because you might fail to convince me that my safety is unimportant doesn't mean I won't consider what you have to say. What I don't like is when people who only see a small little bit of the picture start preaching from their pulpet about how corrupt cops are because they did this or that for no reason. Trust me: there was a reason. And yes, there are cops who are "bad." But you can't judge all cops based upon what you hear about one or two of them. I mean... look at civilians: all we hear on the news about them is the bad stuff, too, so why aren't we condemning all of society? Why just the cops? And taking it a step further, if the citizenry is corrupt and villainous, how can they be dealt with if law enforcement is limited to acting within the same laws that the citizens are required to?
It's so lame how people think that cops should always take the high road* even if it means getting killed and failing to catch the perpetrator. I mean, there's a reason why cops carry guns! If being a cop were easy, they wouldn't need them! There's a reason why cops have designated marksmen and sharpshooters, because some bad guys just can't be caught by conventional means. There's a reason why police get to park in the red: because if they get a call while they're eating lunch they need to be right next to their vehicle so they can respond as quickly as possible... but what's the point of parking in the red if you're not going to exceed the speed limit as well?
If you want to challenge me, please, by all means, do! But take into consideration the entirety of my statements, not just the parts that can be taken out of context to make cops look like hypocrites.
*The "high road" is not always necessarily the "right" thing to do. That is, depending on what is at risk, it may be more right to inflict pain on someone than to go easy on him. It may even be more right to kill them than to arrest them. For example, if I see a guy on post fleeing from the armory with a weapon, even though it's not loaded, I'm going to shoot him, since a weapon is a tool of death, which suggests his motives for stealing one. If you steal a weapon, your intention must be to commit some other crime that requires it.
Yeah kind of like the cop who arrested a friend of mine from high school for public urination. I was not there at the time but my friend said he laid down on the ground hands and feet out and was screaming to the officer that he had just had shoulder surgery a few days before. The cop still found it necessary to knee him in the back and yank his arm back thus requiring him to have a second shoulder surgery. How does the cop KNOW his actions are not going to hurt the person the cop is arresting. I know for a fact if they started to throw my wife around she would probably die as she had brain surgery a few years ago and had vertebrae removed from her neck. Cops think they know everything and that they need to treat everyone with the same amount of force which in many cases can cause permanent damage or death to the person who they intended to cause pain but not injury.
Put yourself in the cop's shoes. If you have to arrest someone, what chances are YOU willing to take? How does the cop KNOW that your friend is telling the truth?
Fact is, people do stupid stuff. Public urination? That's not the end of the world, but come on! It's just stupid to do that. If I don't have any wings, I'm not going to try and fly off the top of a skyscraper. If you do something stupid, be ready to pay the price. "Circumstance" is not prejudiced.
Granted: the advantage of cops being human is that they can exercise judgement. Depending on the exact circumstances, the cop may have felt that it was in fact necessary to use the level of force that he did with your friend. Was the cop alone or did he have his partner with him? Was your friend a big guy (football player or some such), or was he scronny? Did your friend have a record, and was the cop aware of it?
As for your wife, the only reason to "throw her around" would be if she were herself acting violent. Cops ARE limited in the amount of force they can use. Will they get away with using more even if they weren't supposed to? Could be. Again, it depends on the severity. If it would be a waste of time and tax dollars to investigate, then let it slide (just like the cop letting you off with a warning when you were going 30 over the speed limit). But if real damage was caused and/or the core of the officer's character comes into question, then yes: by all mean, prosecute.
Yes, there are jerk-cops. I've encountered them. But not all cops are bad, even if YOU think they made a bad call. Unless a person is some sort of expert on law enforcement, they don't have a whole lot of authority or credibility when challenging the judgement calls that a law enforcement official makes "in the heat of the moment."
It's kind of like someone with no kids trying to tell a parent never to spank.