I've never been a fan of the 16-"Way", 12-"way", 32-"way" nomenclature. Primarily because most race dampers refer to their adjustments as "double-adjustable/2-way", "3-way", and "4-way" adjustable dampers. IMO it should be "16-position" adjustable. But I digress...
I also hate the lack of understanding in regards to what "pre-load" does, and the confusion it has brought the aftermarket community because lack of understanding. CL65Captain: I guess I might be worth it
When you soften the suspension, it feels "bouncy" because the lack of damping/valving to control the spring causes the car to 'ride on the spring' and oscillate without being controlled (damped). This difficulty to find the right balance of comfort without being under-damped is common for many coilovers from Asia. This is one reason higher end coilovers: HKS, KW, JRZ/Moton, Bilstein (coilovers) have been touted as so much better, because the spring rate and valving are better matched and higher quality to make for a better ride quality.
Try stiffening your dampers to 10-12 in the rear and see if the 'bouncyness' goes away. It might be slightly more harsh, but a better compromise. When I had Tein Flexes, I opted to go lower than their recommendation to say 4-6 clicks from full soft and found the compromise of a bouncier, but less harsh ride a better choice.
You could change the spring rates by either going softer and or just changing the springs to Swift Springs. The higher quality spring actually greatly improves ride quality when retrofitted onto coilovers like Tein.
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