It's just a car..................

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Ten of the northeast contingent just came back from Kids' Day at Watkins Glen and I was one of the brave who managed to drive through torrential storms and skirt around a few tornados (yes, in NY) to arrive safely at the motel on Monday night. As I was greeting one of our group already at the motel, we watched as someone backed his rental car right into the passenger side of my NSX as I yelled at the driver to stop. After he tried to get away, we managed to block him so I could get his insurance information.

Needless to say, I was extremely angry and upset that my dentless '96 with 65,000 miles and 15 track days was now damaged. Although it could have been much worse, my frustration and anger kept me from taking any comfort from that fact.

The following morning, we arrived at Watkins Glen and waited for the buses of kids to arrive. These boys and girls came from an area camp where the children are all suffering from several types of and in various stages of cancer. The violent weather we had seen only hours before had departed the area and almost on cue the sun began to shine when the children lined up to get rides in the cars.

I took 2 boys for laps, one just a little peanut of a kid who we recognized from last year and were happy to see that he had survived another year. The second was a boy who had become blind and who needed the help of several adults to guide him into my car. He asked me to describe each turn and the speeds and after only 3 laps he knew when we were in the boot or if I missed one of the rumble strips in the bus stop. I can honestly say I will never forget the smiles and laughter of these two brave co-pilots of mine on July 23rd.

In less than 24 hours, I had gone from feeling unrelenting anger and frustration over the first damage my car had ever sustained to feeling extremely fortunate to be able to drive a dented NSX.

If you are reading this post, step away from the computer for a moment to go hug your kids, kiss your spouse, call your parents or just take a little internet detour and send an email to a friend to say hello. Keep life in perspective, strive to comprehend fully what is truly important and never forget.......................

It's just a car.

Bob
 
Yours is one of the best posts I've read. I think you have a pretty decent understanding of the meaning of life. Thanks for sharing your experience
 
WOW. That is an AMAZING story!! Just out of curiousity, is there such a "ride-along" thing down in Florida that anyone knows of?? I would LOVE to volunteer my time and my car for something like that!! I love little kids and I LOVE making them smile!!

Dude, I still have a tear in my eye from that...Wow. You're an amazing person! Sorry to hear about the dent, but at least you got the guys information.


Wow.....
 
then again, all the pain and anguish of relationships, i get in my car and go for drive and feel much better.
always a perspective;)
 
This is one of the neatest things I have ever done with my NSX also. We did no-passing laps at ~60% during a Christmas break track event at PIR for the Make a Wish foundation.

Very sad in a way to know some of the kids would not be there for another ride but by the smiles and laughter I did get the feeling we had given them something they appreciated and felt was special.

Anyway, this is very much in line with the good people I've meet in the NSXCA, perhaps we ought to find a way to make this part of our events in the future?

:)
 
Our prayers go out for you and the kids. This is the first time I have said this in public, but my wife and I have been dealing with breast cancer for the last 5 months. Luckily that one "I hope they get cancer and die" thread was locked, or I would have gone off. What we have gone through has been tough, and, although my wife does not share the same affinity that I do for the NSX, one thing that has always made her feel better, is getting dressed up to go out for dinner in our X. She doesn't even mind the wig, as long as I keep the windows rolled up on the highway. Never having had to deal with something like this my whole life, I can assure you that everything you did with those kids made a lifelong, lasting impression. God, or whomever you consider to have created the universe, bless you, and I hope that you continue to bring happiness to people's lives, who other than short breaks, live a life of pain, suffering, and questions about WHY. Thanks for sharing this with us, and for everyone else, just remember, out of the blue, on a perfect summer or winter day, you may find out the one you plan on spending the rest of your life with may not be around for another year, unless you are going to go through hell to get there. I remember a saying I read somewhere, which makes me smile and reflect at the same time....

I asked God to give me strength, so he gave me hardships to make me stronger.

And if anyone cares, she is 32, and I am 30. Her doctor's husband went through testicular cancer at 29. The big C doesn't care a bit about age anymore.

Good luck and many good wishes to all those that have gone before, or are dealing with things as we speak. Prime has been a great pick-me-up, as all problems have a solution, and it is the common goood working towards the well being of an indiviual that makes this site special.

Stepping off the soap box, and going to see what I can do for the wife....................
Tom
 
I am not going to get preachy...but, "he only gives you what you can handle"...these stories are great and a sign that we are all blessed...in some way...Mike
 
We definitely can stage an event that would be more than acceptable to our communities.

Supercharged, how about doing something like that in SD?
 
Wonderful words Bob and I'm proud to have shared that experience with you.Despite our technology and the strength of human will and endurance we are all fragile creatures,thus live each day to the fullest and hold each other near and dear!
 
RSO 34 said:

Keep life in perspective, strive to comprehend fully what is truly important and never forget.......................

It's just a car.

Bob


Well said.

I lost my Dad on April 5th of this year to cancer. In February he was completely healthy at my sons B-day and in no time at all he was gone. Even after everything thats happened since he first got sick, I always remember that it could have been worse and that somewhere, somebody does have it worse. My prayers to those that are dealing w/this illness.
 
Thanks! We just got done with the last of her chemo treatments, so now have a 3 week break before she starts 7 weeks of radiation. She has to get per port removed someime also. After that, 5 years of chemical menopause and hormonal treatments. They will hold off if we want kids, because apparently the treatments will severely damage any fetilized egg.

I consider myself lucky, in that neither of us want kids right now (I know, totally against the moral majority) but all the side effects associated with everything going on can be not worth the risk, and I mean ALL of the side effects. "Different person" type side effects. Any of you guys old enough to have a wife go through menopause has a new respect from me......Candace actually brought up to the Oncologist how moody she has been, even when feeling good, and he told us that even with meds, she still may be "difficult" to deal with. We both laughed, knowing everything that has gone on. My beer consumption has gone up, as has her Ambien consumption. We are both to the point of, "you take care of yours, I'll take care of mine, and, we'll catch up later" Not the best way, we both agree, but we both agree that using friends to "vent" is better than keeping it in. 5 min of bitching on both sides goes a long way in realizing how special you each really have it..................
 
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RSO 34 said:
Ten of the northeast contingent just came back from Kids' Day at Watkins Glen and I was one of the brave who managed to drive through torrential storms and skirt around a few tornados (yes, in NY) to arrive safely at the motel on Monday night. As I was greeting one of our group already at the motel, we watched as someone backed his rental car right into the passenger side of my NSX as I yelled at the driver to stop. After he tried to get away, we managed to block him so I could get his insurance information.

Needless to say, I was extremely angry and upset that my dentless '96 with 65,000 miles and 15 track days was now damaged. Although it could have been much worse, my frustration and anger kept me from taking any comfort from that fact.

The following morning, we arrived at Watkins Glen and waited for the buses of kids to arrive. These boys and girls came from an area camp where the children are all suffering from several types of and in various stages of cancer. The violent weather we had seen only hours before had departed the area and almost on cue the sun began to shine when the children lined up to get rides in the cars.

I took 2 boys for laps, one just a little peanut of a kid who we recognized from last year and were happy to see that he had survived another year. The second was a boy who had become blind and who needed the help of several adults to guide him into my car. He asked me to describe each turn and the speeds and after only 3 laps he knew when we were in the boot or if I missed one of the rumble strips in the bus stop. I can honestly say I will never forget the smiles and laughter of these two brave co-pilots of mine on July 23rd.

In less than 24 hours, I had gone from feeling unrelenting anger and frustration over the first damage my car had ever sustained to feeling extremely fortunate to be able to drive a dented NSX.

If you are reading this post, step away from the computer for a moment to go hug your kids, kiss your spouse, call your parents or just take a little internet detour and send an email to a friend to say hello. Keep life in perspective, strive to comprehend fully what is truly important and never forget.......................

It's just a car.

Bob


Exactly....... Love people,not things.:)
It is just a car.
 
Awesome stories! Really put a smile on my face to read all of this tonight.

I got my NSX last June, and was almost immediately invited by the local NSXCA rep to attend the 1st annual Sandia Braille Rallye. Apparently, this is a national event, and here in ABQ it is put on by the local BMW Club.

The Braille Rallye is an event reserved for nicer cars, and it's attended by local celebrities and such. But that is all fine and dandy (and was the initial reason why I showed up) but the real joy in the event was seeing the smiles on the kids' faces.

Visually impaired children throughout the state made the journey to Albuquerque to take part in the event. Basically, each child is paired with a driver, and they read braille directions and "navigate" through a route to each checkpoint. It was a very special day. They even gave the kids a "tour" of the cars beforehand, and they judged how each car felt! Imagine a concours for the blind......it was pretty neat.

The Braille Rallye is an incentive for the kids to do well in their studies through out the year. The students who do well are chosen and it is something that these kids were definitely looking forward to.

On a sad note, I don't think that there is one here this year, and I haven't heard of one anywhere else, either. If you hear about a Braille Rallye being held in your local area, I would highly recommend it to you. I guarantee it will be the highlight of your summer!

Chuck
 
tomc92bb000059 said:
This is the first time I have said this in public, but my wife and I have been dealing with breast cancer for the last 5 months.
Good luck and many good wishes to all those that have gone before, or are dealing with things as we speak. Prime has been a great pick-me-up, as all problems have a solution, and it is the common goood working towards the well being of an indiviual that makes this site special.

Stepping off the soap box, and going to see what I can do for the wife....................
Tom


Tom,

My thoughts will be with you and your wife. Keep the faith.

Bob
 
Supercharged, how about doing something like that in SD?

Sure, all we need is a track location accessible to the interested childern. In SD that probably means an autocross event. I'll mention it to P&H.
 
Autocross would have to be done either at Qualcomm or Carlsbad Raceway, I think. Now, how do we plan to get the children to come out?
 
Very good post.

Thank you for sharing, makes you understand the real important things in life.



Mich
Holland
 
The race organizers or we would need to contact one of many volunteer organizations that could coordinate getting the kids there. It should not be a problem if the event insurance covers non-competitive ride-alongs, I'd start with the event organizer, getting the kids will be simple after that.
 
How do we get in touch with the event organizer? I could contact one of the volunteer group. I just need to be point in the right direction as I am not very familiar with the volunteer groups here in SD at all. In the end, I think we will have to coordinate our effort in order for this to run smoothly. If this is a go, do you need my phone number so we can keep in touch?
 
Thank you for sharing such a wonderful story.
 
Brian2by2 said:
If anyone knows of an upcoming South Florida event, please email me with details! i really want to do something like this!!

I don't know of any Floridian events but the camp that we hosted does have a Tampa branch. You might want to try to organize something down there and contact the camp in Tampa.

http://www.campgooddays.org
 
Damn you Bob! :) There ya go bringing tears to my eyes. I was lucky enough to have been invited by my new NSX buddies to join them for this event. I feel lucky to have participated and I came away with more than I contributed.


To Tom and all who are in similar situations - good luck.

We seek each other out due to our similar interests in cars, we end up hanging together for a totally separate reason....

It's not the cars, it's the people.
 
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