I'm feeling pretty dumb right now because I can't figure out how to de-mate 2 connectors. I am attempting to troubleshoot a problem with my driver side power window and I need to uncouple the 4 pin and 6 pin connectors that hook up the power window controller but I can't get the connectors apart. Can anybody clue me in? In the pic below, the yellow arrows point to tabs that appear to be locking the halves together but I haven't found the right combination to this lock. Please make me feel dumber by showing me how easy it really is