Got some crossovers today so I could connect the tweeter and woofer up. The crossovers happened to be just the right size and fit perfectly within the space the Bose amp used to occupy, it worked out great because everything is still nicely fits within the enclosure and there's no need to figure out mounting solutions somewhere on the door panel.
3d printed mount to connect the 4 Bose mounting points to the 2 crossover holes
Here's the crossover all wired up and ready to go. I'm using the OEM wiring harness going into the crossover, then the other half of it to the woofer and 2 extra wires running back out the enclosure for the tweeter.
After listened to both possible tweeter locations (beside the woofer and up by the a-pillar) there's no doubt in my mind the a-pillar is the way to do it. Overall I think this is a pretty strong improvement over the previous setup with the single tweeter in the center vent (you can say I told you so Turbo) but it means I'm going to have to find some way to fabricate a modified version of that triangular trim panel.
Differences with the sound:
Original setup (2 door woofers plus vent tweeter) - Sounded pretty good but the highs and lows were distinctly separated (sonically), you could easily tell the highs were coming from the front and center position which is what they normally do sort of... but it didn't sound natural.
Woofer and tweeter in the Bose enclosure side by side - While the sound was more cohesive the highs mostly disappeared (the tweeters were angled towards me as much as I thought I could realistically do within the space confines). The highs were better integrated with the woofers but the soundstage seemed wasn't in front as much as it would normally be. In some ways I liked this setup less than the original but I'm not sure if it may have sounded better if I had a way to bump up the volume on the tweeter to compensate.
Woofer in the Bose enclosure and tweeter by the a-pillar - Cohesive sound, soundstage in the proper spot, some form of real imaging, basically the sound you would expect to hear
Overall I'm really happy with the result now, I still can't believe how much bass these 4" drivers are putting out. I definitely don't feel like I'm in need of a subwoofer.