Last Friday's meet was a huge turn-out but around 12:30 got busted by the police since I think there were just too many cars!
Night meets are better for me these days with the kids. If you guys want a chill spot away from other people, the Starbucks off Fremont Blvd. near the Home Depot is very well lit and super peaceful. However if you want to meet somewhere there's a lot of other cars to check out then probably Milpitas McCarthy is the best spot.
One other popular location is the Starbucks off Lawrence/El Camino in Sunnyvale. My friend owns a nice Korean pastry/coffee shop next to Palace BBQ across the street too if you want to meet there. Driveway friendly for lowered cars and they are open till 10pm.