Drilled rotors do NOT crack more easily, based on my experience. I've gone through numerous sets of drilled rotors, slotted rotors, and solid-faced rotors. All lasted the exact same number of racetrack miles before cracking. (The only variation was with two-piece rotors, which last a lot longer, regardless of the type of face on the rotor.) The reason people
think drilled rotors don't last as long is that the cracks form in a radial direction through the holes, so people erroneously conclude that the holes "caused" the cracks. But the cracks form in a radial direction on slotted and solid-faced rotors, too, and at about the same point in their track life.
As Hapa states above, you almost certainly did NOT warp your rotors, but rather, created uneven pad deposits, for the reasons R13 mentions. You can avoid this by bedding your rotors and pads properly. This is described in vivid detail in this Stoptech white paper:
The "Warped" Brake Disc and Other Myths of the Braking System
Proper bedding, as described there, will probably also eliminate the fade you experienced in the brake pad. It is almost certainly a matter of "green pad syndrome", in which pads fade the first time they get really, really hot. Once they have been through a proper bedding procedure and have gotten really, really hot, they won't do so again for the remaining life of the brake pad. This is true of just about all street and street-track pads, not just the OEM pads. Which is why those bogus claims that they "suck" are just plain wrong.