I've done a little editing, as is my prerogative as forum Admin. I'd like to remember the cruise as a fun time we all had. I think that when looking back at this thread in a few short weeks when our cars are all tucked away for the winter we won't be interested in the bickering between two people. The bottom line, a good time was had by all, and if you have any comments, concerns, or improvements for an event PLEASE communicate with the Executive and VOLUNTEER to HELP organize the NEXT one.
Our Executive works REALLY hard to put on events like this. I personally have been involved in organizing so many - its truly an affront to their hard work and hours of personal time they generously give up to plan the event for EVERYONE that ANYONE would use the positive discussion about the event as a soapbox to discuss what I, and any third party reading, deem to be "interpersonal" issues.
Please think of who deserves your respect and thanks and honor them the only way they expect you to: by enjoying the event they worked hard on and making it a positive experience for EVERYONE!!!