Thank you gentlemen for the responses posted since I've revived this thread...
I think that ride quality is more important to me than appearance, but not by much. Cost is not so much of an issue, really.
So what are my needs? Well, in order, they are:
1) Keep ride quality similar to factory
2) Lower suspension 1.0" +/- .25"
3) Keep cost for parts below $1000
4) Provide better handling for AutoX events (I've never had my car out, yet)
What I need to do is drive someone's car that has the TEIN's installed, and also drive one that has the Bilstein's/OEM springs setup, to see how the difference is. Can anyone in Sacto help me get a feel for the ride quality of these options? PM me if you have either of these setups and can meet.