There are valid reasons to have gripes about the hybrid tech. And there are valid personal reasons to have gripes about not having a manual clutch option. I personally have a wait and see attitude about the hybrid tech, hoping Honda will surprise me.
For the manual clutch car solution - Always keep another car in the stable that has a clutch and stick. I think and hope that the new NSX will be just as practical as the first one (maybe even more so with a DCT and AWD) and owners will be motivated to drive it 3-4 days a week when weather permits. That's the way I feel about my NSX now. I paid good money for it, so I would like to drive it whenever possible.
I'm with you on hoping Honda can surprise. I think they feel the pressure and hopefully they can use the hybrid tech to augment performance and efficiency as projected. Hybrids have only been used to make niche yuppy cars like the Prius or Insight and there has been very little development in this area since it's still new to the scene. Honda did botch the CRZ, but there is still a small cult following for it just like the CRX, even tho it's does not carry as much as an impact. People have to remember that the CRX was never about high performance really, which was what the CRZ's biggest complaint is.
Inevitably though, we have to make the transition to an alternative fuel OR become extremely efficient at burning this fuel, to the point that the other billions of people on this earth can also enjoy modern Industrial technology as much as the ones like us that are fortunate enough to have access to it. Right now, at current fuel efficiency, there is not enough resources to accommodate even 1/4 of the world's ever growing 7 billion population.
NOW, I know some people will come in and say, hey, it's a sports car, it's not meant to please everyone. Well it's a flagship car, and the tech starts here and then trickles down to the cash crop, bread and butter. Flagships represent the company's main goal and philosophy and I respect Honda's goal right now. It's the execution that everyone is concerned about. We as intelligent human beings seek progression and evolution. What is the next level, when we already had 500+ hp cars for the last half century? Fuel Injection changed the game with the transition from carburetors. You can't fully believe that the first fuel injected cars didn't have concerns and doubts? Hybrids are the current progressive step. Why are modern 500 hp supercars still barely breaking 20 mpg? Half a century ago, it took a very large carbureted engine to make 500 hp, but it got something like ~10 mpg. Why can't a flagship car have ~500 hp and still get well over 30 mpg if not close to 40 mpg? If Honda could achieve this goal, think about the fuel mileage and performance that could be achieved for a car with half that horsepower, but with the same philosophy.