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My HOA fees are almost $500/month........... I love where I live but I don't see much of what I get back in return for my $500.
My HOA fees are almost $500/month........... I love where I live but I don't see much of what I get back in return for my $500.
This type of thing makes me glad I was too poor to buy in a "nice" neighborhood a few years ago. :biggrin:
I'd honestly rather deal with renters down the street letting a house go in the toilet than deal with an overbearing HOA. The house was crap when I moved in, and if it's still crap when I go to sell...I'm breaking even with that factor.
Also,
You clearly aren't from the south. Give me an hour in a car with a camera and I can probably find a dozen or more examples of this within 5 miles of a major urban center (or what passes for a major urban center in TN and surrounding states).
It's really funny because you'll have an entrance to a $1million+ home neighborhood (which is like a 6000+ sqft house here), and less than a half mile later...a trailer park with at least three F-body chevys or pickup trucks on blocks out front.
Good luck to the OP with dealing all of this, otherwise, sell, take the equity from the deal you got and build somewhere a few miles up a nice twisty road....
Let me Clarify R13 -
1. I would rather have a douchebag with cars in his front yard that a socialist, overbearing group of powerhungry nobodies telling me what to do with my own property.
2. When you live in a very high end part of town you don't see that where I am from. The cars on blocks are 15 miles from here (except one here and there- and I seriously couldnt name a single area within a 10 mile radius with one)
3. Out of everything I said, all the unamerican things HOA's do to people all over this country - you find a problem with the "cars on blocks" accuracy?
There is a bigger picture here - a bunch of hall-monitor types want to impose their way on unsuspecting people. And for those who wouldn't even think about it being a problem when they buy a house - they are blindsided by an HOA and their truely amazing power over a homeowner.
I want to be liked by everyone here, but seriously, if you back the HOA model - your on my shi*t -list. Let me make something crystal clear - a neighbors car on blocks may look offensive if you stare at it, but does not bother you inside your home. An HOA reaches into your home and actually impacts your quality of life. Id rather have the cinderblocks.
As for home values - they are in the toilet anyway. But I am sure local ordinances could fix these problems just as well. There is no need for a power hungry entity to tell you what you can and cant do with your home. PERIOD
I'm also on the board of HOA's in one of the houses I own and they have their good / bad points. Always 2 sides to every story right?
Tobasco: I noticed you are in the east coast (MD) and people there are very different than people in the west coast (CA). Whenever I'm out in the Durham/RTP area it reminds me of how polite most people are!
The OP is here on the west coast and over here things are totally different. A lot of jealous haters and people who want a lot but financially may not be capable.
I've been on the short end of a few HOA's prior to joining one for our townhouse community. The end goal is to help keep your neighborhood clean but the method on how to go about this is different with each group. How long have you lived there before these things started happening? My only hunch is that you pissed someone off without knowing it.
A lot of people do not like LARGE pickup trucks but it's true. Especially ones with loud exhausts, big wheels, etc. Are the other neighborhood cars smaller ones in the driveway? Do they complain when you park your nsx or other car on the driveway?
Use the process of elimination but in the end if all else fails just move, why bother with this kind of headache.
i was talking to a neighbor last night. i told him what happened. he has a white tundra always parked on his driveway. he gave me a funny look and said "you mean we can't park on the driveways"? he is doing the same thing with the same vehicle and no one has even mentioned it to him.
i am beginning to think it is not the tundra. when i asked the board for the name of who complained, they tell my KOCAL (the HOA company) does twice monthly sweeps, that no one homeowner complained. i asked why all the rest of the homes with cars on the driveways did not get tagged, they tell me maybe they did and it is none of my business. i asked about the home ACROSS THE STREET FROM THE BOARD MEMBER that has a commercial vehicle (complete with painted advertisements on the side - a white van) always on the driveway , showed them a picture, and the board member across the street says he does not know him or talk to him. then another board member says that person is a good friend of his. so i asked him why did he not mention the ban on commercial vehicles parked on driveways to his friend and he says that he never drives down that street so he would not know about his driveway!
when i told him that did not make sense he stood up, and yelled at me "you are calling me a liar" then he muttered something about how he could get me!
he is an attorney and i have been in plenty of depositions so i knew what he was doing - he was trying to provoke me. they were trying to get me to do something like yell back so that they could prove ? who knows? i just very calmly told him he was over reacting and then i never thought he was lying. an apparent misunderstanding. he sat down.
the funny thing is i just want to park my tundra on my driveway.
some of these guys have completely forgotten we are supposed to be neighbors.
BTW i have a completely stock 2008 tundra
thanks for the explanation, I know 2 sides to every story but I'm pretty sure the HOA is not going to post here and you sound like a fair guy.
Wow you are really screwed - it seems with all the evidence you told us so far they really are there to get you. I would seriously think about moving....
i was thinking...
what if i go to every home with a vehicle parked on the driveway, leave a flyer that says elect me (and some similar people) on to HOA board and we will change the rule...
even if i did not win it might be interesting. i think it would be the biggest voting block. we could replace the entire board. :smile: