If the headlight doors have the same delayed close problem when you use the retractor maintenance switch, then chances are that it is the control module that is the problem. Page 23-174 of the service manual has the test procedure for checking the inputs to the module. If all the inputs to the module work correctly then the default assumption is that the module is faulty. Honda does not set out a procedure for separately testing the module. The module may be suffering from capacitor failures and / or circuit board solder fractures that may be repairable. Owners have mentioned this possibility; but, I have not seen any posts covering dissection of the module and identification of the internal problems - you could be the first!