Does time heal wounds ? (personal)
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IMO When a chick wants "time Off" its time to move on.
Also, I'm not so sure "time will heal all" is your answer. For some people it may take a day and some a decade. You won't be as miserable and hurt in say a year, but if this one was very dear to you, you'll still have that little ache everytime you're reminded of her little quirks/likes/dislikes, until all of "this" becomes a distant memory.
I guess in reality, it's up to you wether or not you want to be "healed" and move on. Keep feeling sorry for yourself, or pick yourself up and go nail the next hottie that walks by you!:biggrin:
Also, I'm not so sure "time will heal all" is your answer. For some people it may take a day and some a decade. You won't be as miserable and hurt in say a year, but if this one was very dear to you, you'll still have that little ache everytime you're reminded of her little quirks/likes/dislikes, until all of "this" becomes a distant memory.
I guess in reality, it's up to you wether or not you want to be "healed" and move on. Keep feeling sorry for yourself, or pick yourself up and go nail the next hottie that walks by you!:biggrin:
I bought my NSX during a hard part of my life. Similar situation where a girl got my head all f**ked up. Long story short, since buying my NSX my life has been on the up and up. Things get better day by day. I will never sell my NSX for this reason alone, it represents everything that was bad that is now great. After a bad day, nothing makes me happier than some time with my "baby".
LOL ....Sorry this isn't the time to have fun on someone else's time of need, however, I did hear that saying too. Don't know if it's actually true though (didn't take me a year for my little over two year...)steveny said:
Depending on why you two broke up, maybe you guys just need to really talk.
My girlfriend broke up with me twice in the first three months of our realtionship. Not because she really wanted to, but because she's just a little hot headed and emotional sometimes. She makes snap decisions without listening to all the information.
The key to dealing with emotional women is patience, first of all, and a commitment to "make it work."
Both times she broke up with me it was because she was just afraid. I said a few words too many, and she just high tailed it. She didn't even give me a chance to explain myself. But I sat her down and explained to her what I really meant, and what I wanted for "us" and after she had a full understanding of my intentions, she came around, and then felt guilty for breaking up with me in the first place.
Anyway, now that she's seen my level of commitment to her, she doesn't do that anymore, realizing that she already twice tried to throw away what she says is the best relationship of her life, and feeling "lucky" that I have the patience to endure her fulxuating emotions.
If you guys broke up during a fight, maybe you two just need to talk things out FOR REAL, no holding back (don't let pride get in the way). If the break up happened over a long period of time (you guys had been talking about it for a while), then you probably do need to be apart. It may never work out between the two of you, but if what is/was there is true love (an eternal commitment to each other's well being), you'll both find some way to make it work.
My girlfriend broke up with me twice in the first three months of our realtionship. Not because she really wanted to, but because she's just a little hot headed and emotional sometimes. She makes snap decisions without listening to all the information.
The key to dealing with emotional women is patience, first of all, and a commitment to "make it work."
Both times she broke up with me it was because she was just afraid. I said a few words too many, and she just high tailed it. She didn't even give me a chance to explain myself. But I sat her down and explained to her what I really meant, and what I wanted for "us" and after she had a full understanding of my intentions, she came around, and then felt guilty for breaking up with me in the first place.
Anyway, now that she's seen my level of commitment to her, she doesn't do that anymore, realizing that she already twice tried to throw away what she says is the best relationship of her life, and feeling "lucky" that I have the patience to endure her fulxuating emotions.
If you guys broke up during a fight, maybe you two just need to talk things out FOR REAL, no holding back (don't let pride get in the way). If the break up happened over a long period of time (you guys had been talking about it for a while), then you probably do need to be apart. It may never work out between the two of you, but if what is/was there is true love (an eternal commitment to each other's well being), you'll both find some way to make it work.
Lock yourself in a room with a bottle of whisky and put the saddest freaking love song you know that reminds you of her and hit repeat. Eventually, you'll get to the point where you realize life goes on.
Go head first into it, deal with it, and heal. I seen alot of friends deal with stuff like that by pretending it never happened and just passing the time. It will get you through it, but overall much better to hurt for a bit and deal with it instead of avoiding it and leaving it unresolved.
Good luck man
Go head first into it, deal with it, and heal. I seen alot of friends deal with stuff like that by pretending it never happened and just passing the time. It will get you through it, but overall much better to hurt for a bit and deal with it instead of avoiding it and leaving it unresolved.
Good luck man
ediddynsx said:
Or surround yourself with you nsxprime buddies:biggrin:
I think naaman's situation is perfect of what is happening. Cos I am a person that says 3 words when 1 was enough. 
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But Im not sure if she's worth fighting for now and if the pain is worth it.
I've turned a new leaf this week! Buying new clothes on thursday and friday and saturday watch out !
Thanx guys!
Cos I really thought it was me but this happens to everyone and I realise my situation is nowhere near compared to others.
I've even lost 5 pounds in the last week my friends are joking another 2 more weeks i would have got a free diet program.
? ?But Im not sure if she's worth fighting for now and if the pain is worth it.
I've turned a new leaf this week! Buying new clothes on thursday and friday and saturday watch out !
Thanx guys!
Cos I really thought it was me but this happens to everyone and I realise my situation is nowhere near compared to others.
I've even lost 5 pounds in the last week my friends are joking another 2 more weeks i would have got a free diet program.
NSXBOX said:Hi guys.
This week has been the first week in my life where i've felt miserable over a relationship. eg. people ask Nico how are you ? i'm like pretty shit
To cut a long story short.
Do you guys believe that time heal wounds ? Giving each other space and carrying on with our own lifes for a while the best way ?
Appreciate it guys.
Nico
oh yeah when i listen to love songs i know who they were intended for and I was even close and felt like ringing up those 'love radio' shows you know i'd like to dedicate this song. hahaaha
No, time does not heal all your pain!!!
But a new piece of ASS will help. :biggrin:
Nico, you need to join the Team Prepaid in Germany for World Cup.
This will help for sure. Or at least had back to Vegas and re visit "Pure"
Cheer up mate!
hey prepaid!
Mate Germany I'd so love to go there. if it wasnt for work.
I'm going skydiving in 2 weeks just decided and thailand in july to relax.
U going to germany ?!?! have fun should be an awesome time.
Mate Germany I'd so love to go there. if it wasnt for work.
I'm going skydiving in 2 weeks just decided and thailand in july to relax.
U going to germany ?!?! have fun should be an awesome time.
This is something my step-father gave me during one of my particularly rough break-ups (there's been a few, hint towards my screen name). It makes a lot of sense and helped me quite a bit :
"Sorrow comes to us all...Perfect relief is not possible, except with time. You can not now realize that you will ever feel better...and yet..you are sure to be happy again."
--Abraham Lincoln
Hang in there. :wink:
"Sorrow comes to us all...Perfect relief is not possible, except with time. You can not now realize that you will ever feel better...and yet..you are sure to be happy again."
--Abraham Lincoln
Hang in there. :wink:
Ruined 2 said:
Love it! Hey, Nico, let's go party! :wink:
I think I'm gonna also do the "nico relief": go clothes shopping and tell the weekend to get ready
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You need to meditate and during the meditation allow the door or energy between the two of you close and feel open to that comfort. Do this if you want to be done with the relationship. In the past I had a GF and we were always off and on, drove me crazy! I could not let go of her. I went through a deep emotional release meditation, after I realized for the first time in a very long time how happy and comfortable Iwas with myself and I truly enjoyed my friends and family. Life became better than ever! Very shortly later, like one month, my current wife and I went on our first date. We fell so fast she took one week off, during which we talked almost every day, and the rest is history.
Always have faith in the fact that everything happens for a reason and never forget how strong you are inside. You can always be complete by yourself.
Always have faith in the fact that everything happens for a reason and never forget how strong you are inside. You can always be complete by yourself.
honey I just want you to to know you are not alone.....I was up in till last week...I was in a 5 year relationship....we got engaged 3 months after we met and bought a house 1 year after we met...for the past 3 years he has been cheating on me like crazy and after many many promises of change and it never happening, I packed all my things last wed morning and left for good. I have decided to purge my life of everything. I have just put my NSX up for sale and have decided as soon as it sells I am moving to the Carribean and taking only my clothes with me. They say time heals all wounds and maybe it does..we'll see...I am going to try and start over a new life....we'll see what happens. So I hope everything works out for you, and I'm sure it will....if it doesnt work out that just means you were not meant to be with that person and you will meet the "ONE" one day. Good Luck baby....it will all work out in the end.
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I hope I'm not coming across as too nosy, but after looking at your profile and discovering your age, I just want to state that you're too young to be settling down anyway. You're making the right decision--go out and enjoy the world ( but try to get another NSX someday ) !!!!!!!Alixp81 said:
NSXBOX said:
Wow Nico... I thought I had some great advice for you.... But I can see that it's taken you a whole 3 days to recover from this relationship!
Must have been true love mate... :wink:
always good to remember... sounds like a thoughtful guy to have in your life. father's day is coming up soon.Ruined 2 said:
I think you are right on this one, my wife passed away 2 months ago and I spent 1 month just thinking and going over the "what if's" after all is said and done you have to get out of the past and into the present and go forward. Of course you are sad and miss them but you have to move on because life is too short to live in the past.
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