i don't have the time to find the related prime thread, but thought we should consider this in future postings:
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Lasting images
Parents fight to clear the Internet of photos taken of their daughter after she was killed in a car crash.
By GREG HARDESTY
The Orange County Register
LADERA RANCH – Lesli Catsouras hasn't opened her e-mails in weeks.
Her husband, Christos, dreads having to use the Internet – fearful of what he accidentally may see.
They have banned their daughters – ages 15, 13 and 8 – from going online.
Losing oldest daughter Nikki, 18, in a car crash on Halloween has been hard enough on the Catsouras family.
Now, their heartache is compounded by outrage.
Graphic accident-scene photos, including close-up shots of Nikki, who suffered massive head trauma, have been leaked onto the Internet.
The images have turned up on hundreds of Web sites and in countless chat rooms and e-mails – from Australia to Italy. The photos often are accompanied by debates about the merits of the images, with many viewers even vilifying the dead teen.
"We're still just starting to deal with Nikki's death, and now this," said Christos Catsouras, 43. "People are sick."
The family blames the leak on the California Highway Patrol, the agency that is investigating the crash. The family has filed a claim against the state as a precursor to a civil lawsuit. The CHP is investigating.
As they continue to grieve, members of the Catsouras family also find themselves struggling to restore some dignity to Nikki's memory – and facing seemingly insurmountable odds to establish some decency in the sometimes insidious, unforgiving grip of the Internet.
The photos are so pervasive, Nikki's 15-year-old sister has stopped going to school out of fear of opening her locker and seeing a photo of her dead sister. She now is being home schooled.
A 12-year-old neighbor who accidentally saw the images is seeing a counselor, according to Christos Catsouras.
Some people have anonymously sent cruel, taunting e-mails to Nikki's relatives – including one to her father that read, "From Dead Girl Walking: Woo Hoo Daddy, I'm Alive."
CHALLENGE
A CHP official in Sacramento said the agency cannot discuss the claim filed by the Catsouras family and said the issue of the leaked images remains under investigation.
"We're trying to find out if these are our photos and, if they are, how they were made public," CHP spokesman Tom Marshall said.
Accident-scene photos are meant only for investigative purposes. CHP policy and the state vehicle code forbid them from being distributed publicly.
The CHP is sending notices to operators of Web sites that have posted the images, demanding that they immediately be taken down.
"We certainly do feel sorry for the family," Marshall said.
The Catsouras family has hired a company, Reputation Defender, also to demand that Web site operators remove the offending pictures.
The Catsouras family may face an uphill battle in trying to control use of the pictures on the Internet, said Brian Daucher, a civil litigator and partner with the Costa Mesa office of Sheppard Mullin Richter & Hampton who specializes in Internet-related litigation.
"Unfortunately, the law is not always great at regulating human decency," said Daucher, who is not involved in the Catsouras case.
Rights that protect a living person against defamation or invasion of privacy don't necessarily extend past death, Daucher said.
The pictures of Nikki's body also have turned up in at least one class for DUI offenders in Orange County, even though alcohol did not play a factor in the 1:45 p.m. accident, according to the CHP.
Toxicological and autopsy reports are pending, the coroner said.
Mothers Against Drunk Driving strongly opposes the use of gory or graphic images.
"The gore factor doesn't necessarily translate to behavioral changes," said Gail Butler, executive director of the Orange County chapter of MADD. "It would be nice if things were that easy."
One Internet expert theorized about why people would view and circulate such images.
"In the online world, a person can be totally disconnected from the consequences of their actions," said Nancy Willard, executive director of the Center for Safe and Responsible Internet Use in Eugene, Ore.
"They can have no empathy. They can't see the harm being done."
FREE SPIRIT
By all accounts, Nikki was not the rich, spoiled partygoer who got drunk and crashed a Porsche given to her by her father – a fiction circulating online.
"She was a sweet, wonderful girl who never hurt anyone," said her mother, Lesli Catsouras.
Nikki had just started taking classes at Saddleback College in Mission Viejo. She had a passion for photography.
Nikki actually loved thrift stores and wanted to buy a beat-up '80s car, Johnson said.
In its claim, the Catsouras family cites emotional distress, loss of earnings and loss of consortium and seeks punitive damages, said attorney Tyler D. Offenhauser of Bremer Whyte Brown & O'Meara in Newport Beach.
"These images were posted solely for their 'shock and awe' value, without any consideration whatsoever for the feelings of the family," Offenhauser said. The 911 calls also are circulating online, he said.
The Catsouras family found out about the photos a few days after Nikki's funeral.
One of her cousins, Zoe, 19, got a text message on her cell phone.
When she opened it, she saw thumbnail images of the accident scene – one of Nikki shown slumped over and still strapped into the driver's seat, most of her head and face missing – and threw her phone down in shock.
The night before she died, Nikki had gotten into an argument with her father about "typical teenager stuff," Christos Catsouras said.
He disciplined her by taking away the keys to her car.
Nikki's mother said her daughter wasn't feeling well Oct. 31. She had a 3 p.m. appointment to see a doctor.
Christos Catsouras had lunch at home that day. He works five minutes away at a real estate office.
He recalled telling Nikki before he went back to the office that he loved her. She blew him a kiss and flashed him a peace sign.
After he left, Nikki walked to a key rack in the house and took the keys to her father's $150,000 Porsche – which Nikki had never driven, her father said.
The keys were hanging where they always were, with all the others.
Lesli Catsouras heard the garage door open and the car leave and called her husband, who called 911. He immediately drove around looking for her.
Nikki had taken off down the Eastern (241) Toll Road in his black 911 Carrera.
As she tried to pass a car that was going about 70 mph, she clipped it and lost control of the Porsche, the CHP said.
She slammed into a toll-booth building at Alton Parkway in Lake Forest.
Christos Catsouras' mind continually goes back to his last moments with his daughter.
Every day, he said, he kisses his daughters goodbye.
That day, he didn't kiss Nikki. In an interview, his eyes welled up. He fell silent.
Lesli Catsouras sat next to him, staring blankly ahead, her arms tightly crossed.
"She was our child," she said.
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Lasting images
Parents fight to clear the Internet of photos taken of their daughter after she was killed in a car crash.
By GREG HARDESTY
The Orange County Register
LADERA RANCH – Lesli Catsouras hasn't opened her e-mails in weeks.
Her husband, Christos, dreads having to use the Internet – fearful of what he accidentally may see.
They have banned their daughters – ages 15, 13 and 8 – from going online.
Losing oldest daughter Nikki, 18, in a car crash on Halloween has been hard enough on the Catsouras family.
Now, their heartache is compounded by outrage.
Graphic accident-scene photos, including close-up shots of Nikki, who suffered massive head trauma, have been leaked onto the Internet.
The images have turned up on hundreds of Web sites and in countless chat rooms and e-mails – from Australia to Italy. The photos often are accompanied by debates about the merits of the images, with many viewers even vilifying the dead teen.
"We're still just starting to deal with Nikki's death, and now this," said Christos Catsouras, 43. "People are sick."
The family blames the leak on the California Highway Patrol, the agency that is investigating the crash. The family has filed a claim against the state as a precursor to a civil lawsuit. The CHP is investigating.
As they continue to grieve, members of the Catsouras family also find themselves struggling to restore some dignity to Nikki's memory – and facing seemingly insurmountable odds to establish some decency in the sometimes insidious, unforgiving grip of the Internet.
The photos are so pervasive, Nikki's 15-year-old sister has stopped going to school out of fear of opening her locker and seeing a photo of her dead sister. She now is being home schooled.
A 12-year-old neighbor who accidentally saw the images is seeing a counselor, according to Christos Catsouras.
Some people have anonymously sent cruel, taunting e-mails to Nikki's relatives – including one to her father that read, "From Dead Girl Walking: Woo Hoo Daddy, I'm Alive."
CHALLENGE
A CHP official in Sacramento said the agency cannot discuss the claim filed by the Catsouras family and said the issue of the leaked images remains under investigation.
"We're trying to find out if these are our photos and, if they are, how they were made public," CHP spokesman Tom Marshall said.
Accident-scene photos are meant only for investigative purposes. CHP policy and the state vehicle code forbid them from being distributed publicly.
The CHP is sending notices to operators of Web sites that have posted the images, demanding that they immediately be taken down.
"We certainly do feel sorry for the family," Marshall said.
The Catsouras family has hired a company, Reputation Defender, also to demand that Web site operators remove the offending pictures.
The Catsouras family may face an uphill battle in trying to control use of the pictures on the Internet, said Brian Daucher, a civil litigator and partner with the Costa Mesa office of Sheppard Mullin Richter & Hampton who specializes in Internet-related litigation.
"Unfortunately, the law is not always great at regulating human decency," said Daucher, who is not involved in the Catsouras case.
Rights that protect a living person against defamation or invasion of privacy don't necessarily extend past death, Daucher said.
The pictures of Nikki's body also have turned up in at least one class for DUI offenders in Orange County, even though alcohol did not play a factor in the 1:45 p.m. accident, according to the CHP.
Toxicological and autopsy reports are pending, the coroner said.
Mothers Against Drunk Driving strongly opposes the use of gory or graphic images.
"The gore factor doesn't necessarily translate to behavioral changes," said Gail Butler, executive director of the Orange County chapter of MADD. "It would be nice if things were that easy."
One Internet expert theorized about why people would view and circulate such images.
"In the online world, a person can be totally disconnected from the consequences of their actions," said Nancy Willard, executive director of the Center for Safe and Responsible Internet Use in Eugene, Ore.
"They can have no empathy. They can't see the harm being done."
FREE SPIRIT
By all accounts, Nikki was not the rich, spoiled partygoer who got drunk and crashed a Porsche given to her by her father – a fiction circulating online.
"She was a sweet, wonderful girl who never hurt anyone," said her mother, Lesli Catsouras.
Nikki had just started taking classes at Saddleback College in Mission Viejo. She had a passion for photography.
Nikki actually loved thrift stores and wanted to buy a beat-up '80s car, Johnson said.
In its claim, the Catsouras family cites emotional distress, loss of earnings and loss of consortium and seeks punitive damages, said attorney Tyler D. Offenhauser of Bremer Whyte Brown & O'Meara in Newport Beach.
"These images were posted solely for their 'shock and awe' value, without any consideration whatsoever for the feelings of the family," Offenhauser said. The 911 calls also are circulating online, he said.
The Catsouras family found out about the photos a few days after Nikki's funeral.
One of her cousins, Zoe, 19, got a text message on her cell phone.
When she opened it, she saw thumbnail images of the accident scene – one of Nikki shown slumped over and still strapped into the driver's seat, most of her head and face missing – and threw her phone down in shock.
The night before she died, Nikki had gotten into an argument with her father about "typical teenager stuff," Christos Catsouras said.
He disciplined her by taking away the keys to her car.
Nikki's mother said her daughter wasn't feeling well Oct. 31. She had a 3 p.m. appointment to see a doctor.
Christos Catsouras had lunch at home that day. He works five minutes away at a real estate office.
He recalled telling Nikki before he went back to the office that he loved her. She blew him a kiss and flashed him a peace sign.
After he left, Nikki walked to a key rack in the house and took the keys to her father's $150,000 Porsche – which Nikki had never driven, her father said.
The keys were hanging where they always were, with all the others.
Lesli Catsouras heard the garage door open and the car leave and called her husband, who called 911. He immediately drove around looking for her.
Nikki had taken off down the Eastern (241) Toll Road in his black 911 Carrera.
As she tried to pass a car that was going about 70 mph, she clipped it and lost control of the Porsche, the CHP said.
She slammed into a toll-booth building at Alton Parkway in Lake Forest.
Christos Catsouras' mind continually goes back to his last moments with his daughter.
Every day, he said, he kisses his daughters goodbye.
That day, he didn't kiss Nikki. In an interview, his eyes welled up. He fell silent.
Lesli Catsouras sat next to him, staring blankly ahead, her arms tightly crossed.
"She was our child," she said.
This is a sad sad situation, and it makes me embarassed that I even looked at the original thread... :redface:
But at least there is another side to the story now.
