I'm a little surprised the subject is trouble getting them in - I would have thought trouble getting them out would be bigger issue for someone who doesn't like messing with their eyes (but maybe you haven't got that far yet!)
I prefer to use my pinkie finger - smaller, doesn't get in the way of your lids so much.
Transfer the lens with another finger from the case to the tip of the pinkie, ensure it is right side up.
Put a couple of drops of wetting solution in the lens so it is flooded.
*Open bottom eyelid with middle finger of opposite hand (just press downwards on centre outside of lid with one finger & it will open slightly)
Touch lens lightly against eye (do not press - allow the lens to just deposit on your eye) - do not blink at this stage!
Open top eyelid with your finger & thumb & lift over the top of the lens (don't laugh, this ensures that you won't blink it out, especially as you still have a lot of liquid under the lens)
As you "drop" your lid onto the lens, it will squeeze out some fluid, afterwards you should be able to blink normally.
*edit: when I realized when actually doing it I had reported slightly differently!