Teej,
You are not coming off as negative at all. I think that people have their own priorities in life. And from my past, I kind of tried to follow the path of my more successful peers. I always asked myself what did they do to get them where they are now? From reading all those "successful & money wise" books, I walk away with buy things that will appreciate (i.e. real estate) and not depreciate, reduce debt, and enjoy life! But I have to own a car(which depreciates), so I pick the ones that will last a long time.
Sometimes, my wants exceed my needs but I have to keep that in check (well usually the wife does that for me). I know you may not be in the mode to buy a home, but eventually that will come around.. (especially when you start learning about tax benefits and etc.)
In the end, it is your life and I always say "you only live once". Do what you want. As for your salary, you can always sacrifice some of your "free time" and pick up overtime (if the job allows) OR a second job to raise your income level. Hard work does pay off!
Also, when I buy my vehicles, I don't think about resale value because I don't plan on making $$ off these cars nor do I plan on selling them. I buy what I want and enjoy them fully. If time comes to where I need to sell my assets, I'll deal with my consequences then. But I don't go into buying a car thinking that I will sell it later.... That just means I'm not fully happy with my purchase. Definitely, enjoy what you own!
Do what you think is right for you. Everyone has a learning curve to experience.....
Good Luck!
my other $.01
You are not coming off as negative at all. I think that people have their own priorities in life. And from my past, I kind of tried to follow the path of my more successful peers. I always asked myself what did they do to get them where they are now? From reading all those "successful & money wise" books, I walk away with buy things that will appreciate (i.e. real estate) and not depreciate, reduce debt, and enjoy life! But I have to own a car(which depreciates), so I pick the ones that will last a long time.
Sometimes, my wants exceed my needs but I have to keep that in check (well usually the wife does that for me). I know you may not be in the mode to buy a home, but eventually that will come around.. (especially when you start learning about tax benefits and etc.)
In the end, it is your life and I always say "you only live once". Do what you want. As for your salary, you can always sacrifice some of your "free time" and pick up overtime (if the job allows) OR a second job to raise your income level. Hard work does pay off!
Also, when I buy my vehicles, I don't think about resale value because I don't plan on making $$ off these cars nor do I plan on selling them. I buy what I want and enjoy them fully. If time comes to where I need to sell my assets, I'll deal with my consequences then. But I don't go into buying a car thinking that I will sell it later.... That just means I'm not fully happy with my purchase. Definitely, enjoy what you own!
Do what you think is right for you. Everyone has a learning curve to experience.....
Good Luck!
my other $.01