I think YOU'RE confused, so I'll review.Im just expressing what happened with me. My oem wheels have stock sizes. I think your confused, so I will summarize. My car when stock was at 5.3 in the front(measuring from the ground to the bottom of the jack point in the front) after installing the h&r suspension it lowered it to 3.5ish after installing new rims it raised it to 4. That's with 215/35/18 front tires, very popular choice with 18/19 set up. If some one else can chime in.
Your car may have gained in height because the make and model of your tires may run large in the 18"/19" sizes, even though other makes and models of tires may not.
Your car may also have gained in height because your old tires were worn and your new tires were new. The difference in tread depth can raise your car 1/4", all by itself. And this happens even when you're not changing the size of your wheels or tires.
I'm not saying your car didn't increase in ride height by .5". It's quite possible that it did. However, it did not increase in ride height by .5" just because you switched to 18"/19" wheels.