stephenti said:
"Not UNcommon" for a 20~30 yr old Asian to be living at home w/ their parents?!?! If that's the truth, then that is pathetic... who are these people?! What kind of generalization is this?!
I'm Asian, and have a lot of Asian friends... there is not one of my close friends that lives at home... we've all got jobs, homes, cars, etc... in other words, we're responsible adults. Even looking at most of my acquaintences, they are independent. For someone to buy an NSX while still living at "home" is just irresponsible... and to recommend that option is simply terrible advice. To live with your mama and papa and drive an NSX is really ass backwards... get your sh*t together, and go buy a home first.
Homes are an investment if done right... make enough smart buys in homes, and you'll be buying any car you want.
Cars are a liability for the most part... spend enough on car-related purchases, and you'll be homeless... unless you don't mind living at home as a 20~30 yr old... lol.
Stephen
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it says that you're from hollywood, west coast. but i will tell you, a MAJORITY of asians over the northeast/east coast live with their parents. do they have jobs? yes. do they have high paying careers? yes. do they have nice cars? yes. and can the afford a house? yes, but they are traditional. i didn't say 100% of asian's this day and age live at home with their parents. i'm just saying its not uncommon; speaking for vietnamese and chinese. (which i'm vietnamese). and your statement seems like you are attacking my comment. which if you were asian, you would know that its a simple fact that asians rarely move out, (the traditional ones---not the americanized ones that know english, and only "some" of their own language---)
for personal facts. i have two cousins. one lives in suburbs of pennsylvania. rarely any asian friends, english is prime language. graduated a few years ago. he just moved out of his parents over sized house. makes good money, engaged, and is 25 years old. then i have my other cousin that lives in urban area of south jersey, mainly asian friends, vietnamese prime language, just got married, didn't go to college but owns her own business and does well, 28 years old, just had a daughter 2 months ago, and lives at home with her mom, husband and daughter.
i didn't lose respect for my cousin that lives at home, but rather, i respected her even more because she is keeping her family tighter, but my other cousin moved away and rarely visits his parents or our family. yes, it may seem that it's "pathetic" going on 30 and living at home, but its a culture thing. and you don't really have any right to judge.
and to pass judgement, i have family and friends over in california, and the stories i hear are: that they just like to buy nice cars, homes, clothes w/e trying to brag about their income status, and how much better they are then other people. they always have to be one up on someone else. if someone buys an E class benz, then the next HAS to buy an S class. so on and so forth. but that's just "stories" i hear for west coast asians.
"If that's the truth, then that is pathetic... who are these people?! What kind of generalization is this?!"