do you have a picture of what wire you are talking about?
what if you just diconect it and leave it that way what will happen?
Take a look at the picture of this ABS unit. You are looking at the rear of the unit,(closest to the firewall). If you unplug this connection (orange plug)and not jump the two wires in the vehicle harness, you would be better off leaving it connected. With it connected at least the pressure switch will shut off the pump if the solenoid was to stop seeping and allow the pressure to come up. If you don't want to jump this connection just remove the ABS pump relay in the forward fuse box. This will disable the pump, but will leave the ABS caution warning light in the instrument panel illuminated.
Brad