Deqle,
First... DON'T RUN THE ENGINE!
It's not going to get better by itself. I'm surprised you kept running the engine and drove it home.
Since you're not exactly sure what's involved in checking this out, I would strongly suggest that you do NOT attempt to check this out yourself.
I also can't stress enough that you don't run the engine. I disagree with Andy here. I can't see any reason to take a chance running the engine. To save a few hundred dollars on a tow bill and risk screwing up a several thousand dollar engine? Why?
You could have bent valve and maybe you can get by with replacing the valve(s) and guides, but if you're driving it around, testing it to see if it's "weak" then you're just taking a chance that a valve could let loose, or hit a piston, or other nasty things that could really be expensive and force you to rebuild the entire engine.
I've seen engines with bent valves have the valve retainers damaged and let loose after the fact. It's not a pretty sight to see what a loose valve can do inside the cylinder.
I doubt it's a burned valve since you said this all started after a missed shift.
And, yes, if the heads need to come off, which I'm 90% sure they will, it obviously makes sense to get a complete valve job, etc.
-Jim
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