Mattchu: "The employee...this person wants the security IF a paycheck..." Was the "if" a Freudian Slip
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Gotta agree with nsxtasy, hands down the best advice I could give to anyone is:
"Choose something you like to do, and become very very good at it. If you're good at it, you'll do well in that field"
The IT (and related graphics/creative sibling fields) are great platforms for the above philosophy.
And Mattchu, me being in your #3 category, you may be missing the point of the endless efforts related. While over the last 15 years my IT company has grown into a rather large international organization, I still sweat as many (or more) hours a week as I ever did.
So besides the golden point made by nsxtasy above, I can only think of two other sobering facts:
a) One's perceived financial needs tend to outgrow whatever the income is.
I.e.: at 20k one dreams of how cool things would be if they made 30k.
At 100k one dreams of how cool things would be if they made 150k.
At 1mil, one dreams of how cool things would be if they made 1.5mil.
b) Someone once said: "Show me the world's most beautiful woman, and I'll show you a guy who is tired of f*ng her". Read whatever life lesson you want into that.
Oh well, off the soapbox now.
Ralph
[This message has been edited by rquintero (edited 31 January 2001).]