Dan,
I use a dremel to cut a small notch on each side of the stake on the nut, then take a very square drift and give it a wack. That gets the stake completely out of the way.
3/4 breaker bar 36mm socket, 5' pipe. One firm push, it's off.
If you ever spent time with early VW Beetles, these were essential tools for a rear brake job (oops dating myself
) + a big cotter pin. (I recall them being torqued to 212 ft. lbs.)
This is the best reason to keep a stock 16" rear wheel around
. Agree with Ken, You really must be on the ground, e-brake set, in gear, and I try to always have someone on the foot brake too.
Just did it today, effortless.
HTH,
LarryB