Past weekend run in w/ law enforcement at county fair

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So on Friday, myself and a small group of buddies of mine got together to hit up our local county fair. Its sort of like going to a reunion every year lol.

Anyhow, one of the guys tagging along is kind of a trouble maker when he gets that alcohol in him. What makes matters worse is he should NOT be drinking. He is on prescription meds and recently had a HUGE part of his brain removed due to cancer. But he drinks his butt off anyways and doesn't give a damn.

A little history on this guy: The first time I hung out with him, we all went to a bar out of town where he got pretty buzzed. We then went to another neighboring town to go bar hop. First bar we get to, I sit down while every one makes a beeline for the head. The guy decides to belly up to the bar alone. No more than 1 minute later, the guys come out of the restroom and say, "We gotta go, NOW". He got us kicked out. Pissed me off since I already picked out my women to hit on for the evening in this nice bar. So kicked out of one bar in less than 1 minute. I drive us all (I'm always the DD) across town till he hit another bar. We all go inside, I start to make conversation with the hot bartender and start to make up some ground with her, (she reminded me of my last smokin hot gf) when 15 minutes into it, I get the same message from the bartender, "Sorry but when your buddy gets back inside, he needs to sign the tab and go". Kicked out of another bar. And on the way out, I intercept his arm from hitting some random guy with my arm and drag him into the truck. Pretty rowdy guy and he LOVES to fight when he's drunk. Anyhow, we make it home safe and without an encounter with law enforcement.

Back to the fair! At the fair they serve up LOTS and LOTS of Bud/Budlight and Bluemoon on tap in those little red beer pong cups. $4 each. I have just one 5+ hours earlier that night because once again, I'm DD. So the guys buy their beers drink up and I'd always lose sight of them in one of the beer gardens where a band plays. Usually because I'm chatting it up with some woman while they wander for hot women. I play it smart, I let them come to me or come close lol. Well the guys are buzzed pretty good and wandering the fairgrounds beer cups in hand. I'm talking to a hot woman when I get a text, "Dude, front gate, we gotta go NOW". I reply "10-4", to my buddy somewhere in the fair with the rest of the guys. I get some digits, say good bye and walk towards the front gate. In my mind, I'm thinking"What did they do now?" and seconds later I'm thinking "Oh shit!" because I remembered last time and I'm RUNNING towards the front gate. Not 100 yards later, I spot the nut and one of my buddies talking.... to a sheriff's officer. Apparently, the nut was saying something to a woman as she walked by him, she said something back and he responded with "F#ck off". The sheriff officer gave him hell for telling her to "F#ck off". The woman never complained, they just all kept walking their own separate ways. The officer apparently overheard him. Anyhow, the officer threatened to arrest the nut and kept saying "You want to hit me? You look like you want to hit me" over and over and over. The nut, THIS TIME, was actually minding his P's and Q's since there was an actual cop involved. The officer THEN threatened to arrest him for public intoxication. To make this long story a bit shorter, we managed to get him out of the clink because we actually party and drink and/or went to high school with ALOT of law enforcement guys.

So my question is if the fair serves beer in open containers to customers IN the fair, can a cop REALLY arrest the customers for having an open container and/or even drinking IN the fair?

We already know that the cop could of arrested the nut for telling the random woman to "F#ck off" because they can hold you for 48 hours w/o filing a charge. He could of just to be an a$$hole. Maybe disorderly conduct or something? I don't know. Public indecency?
 
The answer is no, but a better question to ask yourself is, "Why am I hanging out with a half-brained, violent drunk who curses at women when I'm trying to get laid?"
 
The answer is no, but a better question to ask yourself is, "Why am I hanging out with a half-brained, violent drunk who curses at women when I'm trying to get laid?"
I gotta agree with Mike here. Police can always musture a charge like public intox/distrubing the peace/lude conduct ect, ect. Be friends but not "bar" friends. Seems like eveytime you strike up a conversation with a girl, you have to bail because of trouble. That is not having a good time IMO. I feel for your friend but seems like he's becoming more of a liability everytime you go out together. Good luck.
 
The answer is no, but a better question to ask yourself is, "Why am I hanging out with a half-brained, violent drunk who curses at women when I'm trying to get laid?"
+1

sounds like one of nature's warning signs....
 
This guy is a total cockblock. Why would you want to go with him? Sounds like you are the official babysitter for the evening when you go out. Do you like feeling needed? Does it make you feel better about yourself to hang out with a lowlife that curses at women and gets in fights? Do you also like watching Jery Springer to get your kicks?
 
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The answer is no, but a better question to ask yourself is, "Why am I hanging out with a half-brained, violent drunk who curses at women when I'm trying to get laid?"

I gotta agree with this too. You spent most of your post talking about how violent and unpredictable your friend is, maybe you need to limit your contact with him.
 
The answer is no, but a better question to ask yourself is, "Why am I hanging out with a half-brained, violent drunk who curses at women when I'm trying to get laid?"

Actually I do very well hanging out with the guys. It's just this one lose screw that makes life a little more interesting. I still have fun though. The last time he passed out, which was the first round of getting us kicked out, he involuntarily paid for EVERYONE'S drinks at the bar AND Jack in the Box for the car load of us lol.

We TRY to avoid him after that incident but he's still a buddy of ours. I rather work to keep him out of trouble than let him get into trouble. He's a good guy even though he can be a complete 1/2 brain moron when boozed up.

Maybe he might make a better fishing buddy.:smile:

We're thinking fish BAIT lol.

This guy is a total cockblock. Why would you want to go with him? Sounds like you are the official babysitter for the evening when you go out. Do you like feeling needed? Does it make you feel better about yourself to hang out with a lowlife that curses at women and gets in fights? Do you also like watching Jery Springer to get your kicks?


Actually, I would consider myself the official baby sitter. Needed? Maybe sometimes but they're my boys, friends for most of my 28 years here on earth. But it's still fun to watch the drunks and as a matter of fact, I score with the ladies ALOT higher with these drunken fools than without. They make me, look even better lol. Till my other buddy gets so shit faced that he steals the girl's drink. Then she takes off because my friend just acted like a complete loser lol. Women come and go, I never take bar women very seriously.

Just because she might of been a woman doesn't mean she didn't deserve it. Plus all he did was tell her to "f#ck off", just a more crude way to tell her to take a hike.

I don't actually like springer very much but I do tell people to watch it when they think their life sucks for one reason or another.

Seriously, who am I trying to impress at the bar? lol
 
David,
Is this a good friend? If he is someone that you just happen to hang out with, then it is up to you to either continue or sever this relationship. If he is a good friend, then either hang out away from alcohol or this:
http://www.aetv.com/intervention/index.jsp
Things will not get better if no change is made. The worst part is, he could drag you and yor other friends down with him.
 
He's a good friend of my one buddies. To me, he's just a friend. I won't severe it because I'm going to be moving 2-3 hours away in a few weeks anyhow but the other guys try to minimize contact with him. All in all, he is still a pretty good guy in general, even when he's drunk. Just......a dumb drunk.

I think he's starting to realize on his own though that things need to change. On the way to an after party after being kicked out of the fair, he realized on his own that he needed to go home. Quite the shocker.
 
He's a good friend of my one buddies. To me, he's just a friend. I won't severe it because I'm going to be moving 2-3 hours away in a few weeks anyhow but the other guys try to minimize contact with him. All in all, he is still a pretty good guy in general, even when he's drunk. Just......a dumb drunk.

I think he's starting to realize on his own though that things need to change. On the way to an after party after being kicked out of the fair, he realized on his own that he needed to go home. Quite the shocker.

yeah... about that. that's all I'll say about that.
 
No worries; at most booking counters in most police stations and jails they have telephone referrals to good criminal defense attorneys. We love stories like the one you told where you keep associating with a guy who tends to draw negative attention and law enforcement and will probably at some point cause that attention to be focused upon you.

I call that stimulating the economy and supporting the criminal defense profession - Thank you.
 
No worries; at most booking counters in most police stations and jails they have telephone referrals to good criminal defense attorneys. We love stories like the one you told where you keep associating with a guy who tends to draw negative attention and law enforcement and will probably at some point cause that attention to be focused upon you.

I call that stimulating the economy and supporting the criminal defense profession - Thank you.

Wouldn't just letting the guy burn be supporting your profession? By bailing him out of trouble, it would be in your profession's worst interest it seems.

Interesting how most everyone here is AGAINST the DD. Awesome to know. Maybe if you're lucky enough, someone, somewhere will fail to have a DD so that their drunken buddy can plow into a wife or child, maybe your own. Score! Right?? Oh I bet most definitely because then they'll spend hard time in the slammer for their stupidity. Does that sound about right? So you're saying a dead wife or child is equal to Drunk's 15 years behind bars? Fair deal?

Ever see those movies where one action causes a chain reaction that loops back around on itself? It's hollywood but it'd be a bitch if one day I say screw him, and he plows into your kid driving home from UCLA or something for summer vacation. It's all good though because you'll get retribution for a dead child by having the guy spend his life in prison and maybe some cash. But that's just reality.

Yeah he's an idiot. No I don't make a point of hanging out with him. But he manages to show up. I'll take most everyone's advice here next time and leave his ass. Let me know where to send the flowers for the funeral. Sorry for your loss in advance.
 
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It's cool that you look out for a friend by being his DD. It's the extracurricular activities that you're forced to partake in, be it fighting or dealing with law enforcement, that isn't cool. No one here believes that you should risk your own neck by helping someone who shows no regard for his own safety or the safety of his friends. That's it. No need to lash out - we're on your side.
 
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Wouldn't just letting the guy burn be supporting your profession? By bailing him out of trouble, it would be in your profession's worst interest it seems.

Interesting how most everyone here is AGAINST the DD. Awesome to know. Maybe if you're lucky enough, someone, somewhere will fail to have a DD so that their drunken buddy can plow into a wife or child, maybe your own. Score! Right?? Oh I bet most definitely because then they'll spend hard time in the slammer for their stupidity. Does that sound about right? So you're saying a dead wife or child is equal to Drunk's 15 years behind bars? Fair deal?

Ever see those movies where one action causes a chain reaction that loops back around on itself? It's hollywood but it'd be a bitch if one day I say screw him, and he plows into your kid driving home from UCLA or something for summer vacation. It's all good though because you'll get retribution for a dead child by having the guy spend his life in prison and maybe some cash. But that's just reality.

Yeah he's an idiot. No I don't make a point of hanging out with him. But he manages to show up. I'll take most everyone's advice here next time and leave his ass. Let me know where to send the flowers for the funeral. Sorry for your loss in advance.

I think that you're looking at the posts in the wrong way. Nobody was against you being a designated driver, their posts were out of wisdom to keep YOURSELF from trouble by ASSOCIATION. You're free to make your own decisions, but by posting personal things in open...it left you open for other's opinions. You being a DD only saves him or your friends from causing an accident for THAT 1 night of bar hopping. If you're truly concerned about the public's safety, then teach them to change their means of having a good time. Or let them get drunk at your home so that they're not out on the road. If he/they don't learn now, then what's going to happen AFTER you move 2-3 hours away? :wink:
 
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I think that you're looking at the posts in the wrong way. Nobody was against you being a designated driver, their posts were out of wisdom to keep YOURSELF from trouble by ASSOCIATION. You're free to make your own decisions, but by posting personal things in open...it left you open for other's opinions. You being a DD only saves him or your friends from causing an accident for THAT 1 night of bar hopping. If you're truly concerned about the public's safety, then teach them to change their means of having a good time. Or let them get drunk at your home so that they're not out on the road. If he/they don't learn now, then what's going to happen AFTER you move 2-3 hours away? :wink:

Thank you- apparently KooLaid missed my point. I wanted him to realize people like that tend to not only ruin their own lives but the lives of their family and friends too. And, just for the record, for 25 years I put asshats like the drunk friend in jail where they belong until they can mature and act like responsible citizens.
 
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