Laid down the law.
My five year old, Just like any other 5 year old.
Is walking around the house with an old Cell Phone in her hand. (I thought it was old) She is having this conversation with an imaginary person on th eother end. (I thought) She is talking about cars and what she wanted to order for herself and her mother. Then she says " You must get my Daddy a Black NSX, because his is missing, some guy has it and it's been so long since we have seen it.
He has not been himself since it was taken from him by the man with the truck. So I want the Black one in your ad and I want it next week. Then she asked if it has a childs seat? I am sitting here looking at her and smiling, because I think she is just piecing together conversations from my many calls about the NSX. Turns out that she has a dupont Registry in front of her talking to a dealer in one of the ads. He was on the other end of the Phone just rolling with laughter. I couldn't believe it. She was really concerned enough that she wanted to get me a car..
On one hand I was like that's my girl. Then I thought on the other. Have I taken the car so seriously that a 5 year old has noticed a change in me? So serious that she would take it upon herself to call and get me a replacement, so she could have me back as my old self.
This was a big wake up call to me. The car is just that. My kid realizes that it has changed me and I had been taking them for granted. Now my child wants my car back so she can have her daddy back. So What am I to do? I am going to pick up my car. (The one she ordered for me)
The other one? Well who knows when that will be done.
Kids are amazing. No moral, just didn't realize that I was different in the mind of my child, and that she attributed it to my not having my car.
My five year old, Just like any other 5 year old.
Is walking around the house with an old Cell Phone in her hand. (I thought it was old) She is having this conversation with an imaginary person on th eother end. (I thought) She is talking about cars and what she wanted to order for herself and her mother. Then she says " You must get my Daddy a Black NSX, because his is missing, some guy has it and it's been so long since we have seen it.
He has not been himself since it was taken from him by the man with the truck. So I want the Black one in your ad and I want it next week. Then she asked if it has a childs seat? I am sitting here looking at her and smiling, because I think she is just piecing together conversations from my many calls about the NSX. Turns out that she has a dupont Registry in front of her talking to a dealer in one of the ads. He was on the other end of the Phone just rolling with laughter. I couldn't believe it. She was really concerned enough that she wanted to get me a car..
On one hand I was like that's my girl. Then I thought on the other. Have I taken the car so seriously that a 5 year old has noticed a change in me? So serious that she would take it upon herself to call and get me a replacement, so she could have me back as my old self.
This was a big wake up call to me. The car is just that. My kid realizes that it has changed me and I had been taking them for granted. Now my child wants my car back so she can have her daddy back. So What am I to do? I am going to pick up my car. (The one she ordered for me)
The other one? Well who knows when that will be done.
Kids are amazing. No moral, just didn't realize that I was different in the mind of my child, and that she attributed it to my not having my car.