Dali owes............an apology
I was fortunate to be able to reverse the charges (in excess of $1000) because I had a credit card company that was "appreciative" of my years of loyalty. I paid the full amount of the goods through Paypal within 24 hours of my order and initially had an excellent experience with MJ who walked me through the products to ensure that I was ordering the right items for my needs.
After continuing to receive emails about my questions and the status of the shipment, I then became a little concerned because my inquiries were met with "I shipped it to the wrong address," "UPS needed more information on my address" and then just silence. Incidentally, my shipping address was my office and my law firm is well known to UPS/Fedex/USPS etc. as we were one of the first tenants in the building 16 years ago.
At that time, I did not realize that Paypal requires that a dispute must be filed within 30 days or else they will refuse to reverse the charges. After multiple email inquiries, all of which were professional in tone and temperament, to MJ went completely unanswered, I was forced to work with the credit card company for the card I link with Paypal to try to get my funds back.
By the way, Paypal took no interest in trying assist me after their time limit expired. I was not expecting them to bend over backwards but I was quite surprised to learn of their reluctance to get involved in any fashion after the 30 days elapsed.
Ultimately, my credit card company acquiesced and managed to reverse the funds in my favor directly against Paypal which, presumably, managed to debit them from Dali's account. I am assuming that Paypal was successful in getting reimbursed from Dali but all I know is that I was able to force Paypal to credit me for the order.
I am posting this for the first time (this occurred during the winter and spring of 2002) because I do not want to be accused of merely "jumping on the bandwagon" of Dali detractors. I would have been more than happy to order more products from Dali had my experience not been so "trying."
Quite simply, if MJ has the time to put together the NSX Registry then he should have the time at least to answer inquiries about where the orders are for members of our community. If something is backordered, just say so. If you are too busy racing in Europe to respond for 30 days, let those waiting know how long that may add to the delivery schedule. There is no excuse for taking the money and then ignoring valid inquiries about when delivery may be expected.
It is time for Dali to acknowledge this ongoing problem despite the fact that it appears to affect just a portion of the members. I realize fully that many people are satisfied but I believe it is safe to say that is because they actually received their orders. For those of us who may be in what others perceive to be the minority, it is obvious that more and more are becoming vocal and I, for one, will continue to dissuade others from risking their money with a business that has shown itself to be hit or miss at best.
Bob