I've been lurking here cause I want to own an NSX one day. Anyways I might be able to help you here as I was able to do what you want on my Legend.
First of all - do you already have a CD deck or changer? If no, then easier.
If no, there is generally an 8 pin DIN plug on the back of most Acura decks. The connections on this plug is like the "monitor" or tape deck connections on your home receiver. In other words it has RCA inputs which could take the output from your mini player.
OK, how do I get the deck to switch to these inputs? Well one of the connections is looking for 6V. This tells the deck to switch to the DIN plug input. This signal could be sent by your CD changer when turned on.
If you want to use a portable player, then you need to install a switch that controls 6V to the "sense" input.
What I did was this; I used a spdt 3 position switch to overcome additional shortcomings to the Acura deck ( from this forum it looks like even NSXes are affected) The antenna always comes up when the deck is activated. When playing CDs or cassettes the antenna should be down- right? Saves wear and tear on those notorious weak Honda antenna mast mechanisms. OK, with this switch, I cut into the antenna power line ( generally yellow with silver tracer) put this onto the center terminal of the switch. the other terminal goes back to the antenna . I now have an antenna switch which remains the antenna down unless I turn it on. The other terminal is connected in series with a 4-5 kilohm resistor to the sense connector on the DIN plug.
When the switch is in neutral the antenna is down, when antenna is turned on, everything is normal and antenna is up. When switch is on other side - the RCA input is activated and antenna is down.
If you already have a CD deck, all is not lost since all you need to do is add a DPDT two position switch that selects the CD or portable player.
One bad thing - those DIN pinouts are NOT standard across hondas. So you might have to use a multimeter to figure it out but it's not too bad.
I added a mini plug to the dash that allows me to plug in the mini player.
Reply if you're still interested.