I can't advise on the color match; but, I can provide some feedback on the Duplicolor product. I used this on some rims (not on my NSX) 10+ years ago. I media blasted the wheels, chemically stripped the remaining finish and then repeated the media blasting for final removal followed by the typical degreasing. I found that the finish started to fail in about 3 - 4 years. The clear coat was disappearing. It wasn't obviously peeling. You could not use your finger to catch a paint edge; but, it was obvious that it was gone from sections of all the wheels. It is hard to tell whether the base silver failed because it was silver on a coarse finish aluminum.
It is not a particular Duplicolor problem. In general, any one part paint applied using a consumer rattle can has to be really thin bodied and as a result are generally not that durable. You can try and make up for that using multiple coats (I did); but, that only seems to improve the finish, not really improve durability (impact / scratch resistance). There are some 2 part epoxy spray paints in a rattle can (Eastwood sells them) that might be more durable than the 1 part Duplicolor. However, that is closer to spraying with a gun because once the 2 part spray can is activated you need to spray until it is gone. It starts to set up once activated so no setting the can on a shelf while you go for lunch. I see there are some 2 part sprays that now claim a 'pot life' of up to 4 days once activated. I have no experience with those; but, wonder how they spray on day 2, 3 and 4. It seems to me the biggest problem would be paint setting up in the nozzle and valve.
Good commercial wheel refinishers use vey durable finishes (OEM or better) and they probably have a color palette that will allow them to do a very good match to the OEM wheel color. This will, or course be a hell of a lot more expensive than a few Duplicolor rattle cans. This is truly a case of getting what you pay for.
Your choice.